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'My daughter is being bullied for her unusual name - people beg me to change it'

Copyright Source: Yueke Fri, Jun 28, 2024

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Choosing a name for your child is one of the most important decisions new parents will make - but this often comes with a lot of opinions from outsiders.
Some parents find it hard to decide on one name for their child, whereas others have had names lined up years before their children are born. Names go in and out of popularity, and there are several influences that affect which names you will hear in the playground - from TV shows, films, celebrity and influencer names, as well as baby names. But one thing to consider is choosing a moniker that makes them feel special, rather than picked on in school.
One mum has received criticism after revealing her daughter's name - and explained that her child is being bullied for it. Taking to Reddit, the anonymous parent said: "She's been coming home from school and saying kids are making fun of her name."
The mum decided she wanted a unique name for her daughter and chose to call her Blayzee. But the seven-year-old is now coming home from school and reporting that kids are making fun of her name after realizing it is unconventional. "What should I do?" the mum asked.
She added: "My seven-year-old's name is Blayzee, and recently she's been coming home from school and saying kids are making fun of her name. She even said her best friend mentioned that her mum must have been young when I named her."
The mum's worried Reddit post has been flooded with comments. Many Reddit users criticized the mum for giving her the name Blayzee. "Don't give your kids stupid names for the sake of being 'special'," said one. They added: "It's terrible when kids are teased. As a mum, you need to own your mistake."
One individual added: "Odd names are isolating for a child. You thought it was cute, but others can't spell it, remember it, or understand its pronunciation. So how does anyone befriend your child with this huge barrier to forming a friendship?
"Did you name her this for you or for her? Because it's not working for her." One person said: "It's an awful name, so you need to allow your child to choose a real name now."
While many shared their dislike for the name, rare children's names are set to stick around this year. Expert Mark Kowalczyk has commented on the rare names tipped to hit it big this year.
Mark said: "Names like 'Yael', 'Elio', and 'Elodie' showcase a global influence, reflecting a modern parent's view. Meanwhile, names like 'Snowdrop' and 'Luxury' push the boundaries of traditional naming conventions, signaling a bold and artistic approach. Names like Marlon, Royal, and Atticus have an elite touch, making them striking choices for parents looking for something grand. While Elsa, Ophelia, and Starlette exude a whimsical charm, perfect for a baby girl."
He continued: "Hollywood and cultural influences play a significant role, but ultimately, it's about parents wanting to give their child a singular start in life with a name that stands out in both sound and substance."
Do you have a unique baby name that you love? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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NEXT: 'Cruel trolls tell me to cover up - but I'll never stop flaunting my amazing mum curves'
Title: Cruel Trolls Tell Me to Cover Up - But I'll Never Stop Flaunting My Amazing Mum Curves Article Start A woman is proudly showing off her body and has called out trolls who say she shouldn't post in her underwear. Samantha Pamela became popular online when she started sharing 'Get Ready With Me' videos where she showcases outfits for 'midsize' women and mums who are looking for flattering fashion pieces. The mum has over 91,600 followers on social media and proudly shows off her "fuller bust" and "mum tum". In a bid to help women find the right bra sizes, flattering lingerie, and swimwear, Samantha - known as Midsize Sammi - can often be seen flaunting her figure in underwear on her social media. She has been inundated with backlash from "hurtful" trolls who tell her to cover up, but Samantha insists she is "doing this for a reason". But the content creator says she won't let the cruel remarks get her down. Speaking to the media, Sammi said: "While most of the messages are positive and encouraging, there are some negative comments on my videos, even from other women saying they don't think I should be in my underwear. "It's hurtful at times and I have found these kinds of comments hard to ignore in the past but as time has gone on I've learnt to deal with them." She continued: "I just remind myself why I started my account. I want to inspire other women." Sammi wants other women who have had children, or are mid-size and above, to feel special in what they wear and not feel like they have to hide their bodies. Her goal is to help women dress to "embrace your curves". She explained: "The main benefit is feeling like I have a purpose, I know I'm helping other women to accept the bodies they have and know they aren't the only ones with lumps and bumps and more." The confident mum, who uses her "mum body" as her "strength", continued: "Having a 'mummy tummy' had a big impact on my confidence, and I just didn't see other women online showing the same kind of postpartum body as me. So I thought if I started to show mine, then other women could look at me and feel valued and seen." Speaking about the impact she has had, Sammi said one of the best messages she's ever received involved a woman who planned on having surgery on her stomach. Sammi said: "She couldn't afford it but was not able to accept her body as it was. She messaged me to say since finding my account she cancelled her appointment and has changed her mind on surgery. "This was the most amazing message to read and honestly, I think about it all the time. To have that impact on somebody is just unbelievable. I think about that whenever I feel doubtful or need to remind myself of why I started this account." Do you have a story? Get in touch via Lucy.Marshall@reachplc.com. Article End

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