'Nasty neighbour mum-shamed me when my poorly baby cried all night - I'm livid'
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Yueke
Fri, Jun 28, 2024
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here's nothing worse than seeing your little ones unwell, especially when there's nothing you can do to help.
One mum's nine-month-old daughter was born extremely poorly and was 'extremely poorly' for the first week of her life. The child has made a full recovery but has recently had 'every cough, cold, and runny nose' since starting nursery three months ago.
The little girl has been admitted to the hospital with a high fever, which was later diagnosed as a viral infection, and has been crying through the night. However, the 'exhausted' mum now has to deal with a nasty neighbour who came around to complain about the noise.
Taking to an online forum, the anonymous woman explained that the neighbour, who doesn't have any children, recently knocked on the door one morning, disgruntled at the crying baby. "He proceeds to complain about her crying and keeping him and his wife awake," the post reads.
"He then told me to seek support, and now I feel like the world's worst mum because my poorly baby is crying in the night! I admit that she has been crying a lot; however, I am doing everything in my power to help her. She's started sleeping with me again so I can get to her as soon as I hear her murmur."
The worn-out mum added that she is 'personally in shock' that the neighbour has complained and asked whether she is being 'unfair'. But, a quick browse at the comments section and it's clear the majority are on her side.
"What does he expect you to do?" one user asked. "He is a stupid bully; he should be commiserating, not playing the big I-am. I would have looked at him, raised an eyebrow, and closed the door."
Another agreed, commenting: "Ignore the t**t. Bet he wouldn't call when your partner is there. There is practically an unwritten rule that if babies cry, they cry." While a third simply added: "Nod, smile, and give it no headspace."
Others did sympathise with the neighbour, arguing that 'nobody likes' having their sleep disrupted - but slammed the man for his hostile approach. "It's not nice for anyone to be kept awake with a baby crying, so I get their frustration," one person reasoned. "But honestly, if there's nothing you can do, then they will have to deal. They can get earplugs, etc."
One mum's nine-month-old daughter was born extremely poorly and was 'extremely poorly' for the first week of her life. The child has made a full recovery but has recently had 'every cough, cold, and runny nose' since starting nursery three months ago.
The little girl has been admitted to the hospital with a high fever, which was later diagnosed as a viral infection, and has been crying through the night. However, the 'exhausted' mum now has to deal with a nasty neighbour who came around to complain about the noise.
Taking to an online forum, the anonymous woman explained that the neighbour, who doesn't have any children, recently knocked on the door one morning, disgruntled at the crying baby. "He proceeds to complain about her crying and keeping him and his wife awake," the post reads.
"He then told me to seek support, and now I feel like the world's worst mum because my poorly baby is crying in the night! I admit that she has been crying a lot; however, I am doing everything in my power to help her. She's started sleeping with me again so I can get to her as soon as I hear her murmur."
The worn-out mum added that she is 'personally in shock' that the neighbour has complained and asked whether she is being 'unfair'. But, a quick browse at the comments section and it's clear the majority are on her side.
"What does he expect you to do?" one user asked. "He is a stupid bully; he should be commiserating, not playing the big I-am. I would have looked at him, raised an eyebrow, and closed the door."
Another agreed, commenting: "Ignore the t**t. Bet he wouldn't call when your partner is there. There is practically an unwritten rule that if babies cry, they cry." While a third simply added: "Nod, smile, and give it no headspace."
Others did sympathise with the neighbour, arguing that 'nobody likes' having their sleep disrupted - but slammed the man for his hostile approach. "It's not nice for anyone to be kept awake with a baby crying, so I get their frustration," one person reasoned. "But honestly, if there's nothing you can do, then they will have to deal. They can get earplugs, etc."
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Choosing a name for your child is one of the most important decisions new parents will make - but this often comes with a lot of opinions from outsiders.
Some parents find it hard to decide on one name for their child, whereas others have had names lined up years before their children are born. Names go in and out of popularity, and there are several influences that affect which names you will hear in the playground - from TV shows, films, celebrity and influencer names, as well as baby names. But one thing to consider is choosing a moniker that makes them feel special, rather than picked on in school.
One mum has received criticism after revealing her daughter's name - and explained that her child is being bullied for it. Taking to Reddit, the anonymous parent said: "She's been coming home from school and saying kids are making fun of her name."
The mum decided she wanted a unique name for her daughter and chose to call her Blayzee. But the seven-year-old is now coming home from school and reporting that kids are making fun of her name after realizing it is unconventional. "What should I do?" the mum asked.
She added: "My seven-year-old's name is Blayzee, and recently she's been coming home from school and saying kids are making fun of her name. She even said her best friend mentioned that her mum must have been young when I named her."
The mum's worried Reddit post has been flooded with comments. Many Reddit users criticized the mum for giving her the name Blayzee. "Don't give your kids stupid names for the sake of being 'special'," said one. They added: "It's terrible when kids are teased. As a mum, you need to own your mistake."
One individual added: "Odd names are isolating for a child. You thought it was cute, but others can't spell it, remember it, or understand its pronunciation. So how does anyone befriend your child with this huge barrier to forming a friendship?
"Did you name her this for you or for her? Because it's not working for her." One person said: "It's an awful name, so you need to allow your child to choose a real name now."
While many shared their dislike for the name, rare children's names are set to stick around this year. Expert Mark Kowalczyk has commented on the rare names tipped to hit it big this year.
Mark said: "Names like 'Yael', 'Elio', and 'Elodie' showcase a global influence, reflecting a modern parent's view. Meanwhile, names like 'Snowdrop' and 'Luxury' push the boundaries of traditional naming conventions, signaling a bold and artistic approach. Names like Marlon, Royal, and Atticus have an elite touch, making them striking choices for parents looking for something grand. While Elsa, Ophelia, and Starlette exude a whimsical charm, perfect for a baby girl."
He continued: "Hollywood and cultural influences play a significant role, but ultimately, it's about parents wanting to give their child a singular start in life with a name that stands out in both sound and substance."
Do you have a unique baby name that you love? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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